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Many people dream of success and try to be successful, but few people actually achieve it. Why?

There is no easy answer to this question.

We first need to know what success means to us, personally. Success does not mean the same to everyone.  Our definitions or view or perception of success are different.

The definition of success, to me, was best described by the famous American basketball coach, John Wooden, who said:  “Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.”   I want to add the words – “every day”!

This means that when you feel satisfied that you have done your best today, to be the best you can be with your specific talents, skills or ability, you are already successful, or on your journey to achieve success.

Success is not just a once-off happening – it is a journey that each of us must travel every day.

My success does not depend on anybody else. My success depends on how I travel my journey every day.

Your success does not depend on what other people are doing or saying. Your success depends on you, yourself, making the best of your own abilities, living your own life and doing your best every day.

In this series we will discuss this journey of success.

We will have practical lessons from other people who will share their journeys with us. You will be able to learn from practical experiences.

Our challenge will be to learn and apply these lessons in our own lives.

One of the most important secrets to Warren Buffett’s success is that he has not stopped learning and developing himself. Buffett is a much better investor today than he was when he started his business. The Warren Buffet lessons explained by Charlie Munger:

“Warren Buffett has become one hell of a lot better investor since the day I met him, and so have I. If we had been frozen at any given stage, with the knowledge we had, the record would have been much worse than it is. So the game is to keep learning, and I don’t think people are going to keep learning who don’t like the learning process”.

 

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Apply these Encouraging lessons from Hollywood stars to achieve your dreams.  Many people see only the glamour, success and lifestyle of these famous people. The media is bombarding the world with the news worthy stories about these people.

Practical lessons of encouragement

Many fans of these stars do not realize that many of these very popular and familiar faces on the big screens have been rejected and had their own failures before they have been able to achieve their dreams and goals.Become inspired.

We tend to forget that behind these stories there is a person, with his or her own feelings and history, it is behind the facade the media is creating of these people. Many of them had their own failures and rejections in life before they achieved success and became famous.

Many of these famous people do have a history or personal life that is little known that can be an encouragement to many others of what can be achieve in life if you are willing to have a dream, believe in the dream and have a plan to achieve your dream.

Learn from the actors, actresses, directors these and other valuable personal lesson. These examples will be an encouragement for everybody irrespective of your dreams or business or personal circumstances in life.

Read more about the journeys of these famous people.

  • From poverty to fame.
  • Their mistakes in live and how they overcame it.
  • The influence of Christianity.
  • Their motivations and driving forces.

You can read stories from famous people like: Tyler Perry, Denzel Washington, Mel Gibson, Angela Bassett, Kristin Chenoweth, Scott Derrickson and many more

Read the lessons of encouragement

These valuable lessons of encouragement for the Self-Employed from the best scientists and thinkers that have changed the world can influence your business. They have used their talents, time and energy to improve life on earth.  These lessons can assist every self-employed in some way or another to improve his own business. Read, learn and apply these principles into your business.

They have tackled major problems and challenges the world have faced and develop new solutions to overcome it. They accept these challenges they analyzed it and spend time and resources to find solutions.  They have seen an opportunity in each challenge they have faced. By solving these problems they have made a great contribution to the world.

The real issue in your self-employed business is to solve the problems facing your business, and not to accept them as a given. Problems are only opportunities in working clothes.  They can be solved. It only need some sweat and brain power. Use this approach of these thinkers, apply it in your business and achieve your dreams.

This is the philosophy of these people. Learn this lesson from them.

Learn valuable lessons from people like: Adam Smith, Confucius, Marconi, Friedman, Watson and many more.

Lessons of encouragement
Lessons from successful businessmen for the self-employed on their journey to success

Learn from these people and be inspired

Reading and learning these Words of Encouragement from top businessmen will be an inspiration for every Self-Employed Business Owner to keep on trying and never never give up on achieving his dream.

These businessmen have reached the summit of Business success. They are willing to share some of their secrets with us.

Learn form people like: Bill Gates, Oprah Winfrey, John D. Rockefeller, Larry Ellison, J. Paul Getty, Warren Buffett, Jeff Bezos, J. K. Rowlin, John Johnson, Li Ka Shing, Mukesh Ambani, Giorgio Armani, and many others.

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What is the my career credo?My career credo will be guided by the following principles:

  1. 1. Circumstances

  • My circumstances don’t control the success and well-being (satisfaction) of my career.
  • My attitude controls my career, my success and well-being.

I cannot change the circumstance, but I can change my attitude.

I will change my attitude.

I am committed to change my attitude

 

  1. My Fears

  • Whatever I fear most in my career I will identify it and face it.
  • It may not disappear, but I will solve it.

I don’t want to rely on others for the success of my future career.

I will face the implications of this uncertainty and solve it.

 

  1. Team work

  • I cannot achieve my career dreams on my own.

I have to collaborate with my family, friends to build a support network to achieve my dreams.

I will actively collaborate with them.

 

  1. My Potential

  • I will unleash/develop/optimize my true potential.

I do have undeveloped skills, talents and ideas. I want to use them.

I will work and develop myself to my true full potential to be financially self sufficient and make a contribution to society.

 

  1. Self-development

  • I am committed to a continuous learning and self development

I have the drive, commitment and self-discipline to develop my full potential.

I will use these abilities of mine to develop a service/product to deliver a unique value to people/customers. I will find it.

 

  1. Take action

  • I want to be in control of my own future career, employment and lifestyle.

I am willing to make a decision and take the necessary action to start working towards my dreams.

I will not: Procrastinate

I will:  Persevere

I will: Never never give up

I will:  Win

My career success is n journey and starts now.

 

I will not

+ Let my circumstances control my dreams + + Rely on others for the success of my future career

I will

+ Never never give up + + Win + + Take action

 

 

What are the most important reasons for self-employment?You must understand some of the most important reasons self-employment to evaluate your own decision on self-employment.

Some of the most obvious reasons are the following:

  • People do have a very good new business idea that they want to exploit and they want to have control over their own ideas.
  • They do believe they can earn a bigger income by working on their own from home than working for a boss.
  • They do want to be more flexible in their working hours, taking holidays, clothing and other related issues.
  • They do want to be their own boss and have the self-confidence to take charge of their own business life.
  • Waist less time on travelling to and from the work daily or do not like the travelling routine.
  • Tax and other cost savings advantages.
  • They do believe they are not valued correctly being employed, can create more value and earn more money.
  • There may be some family commitment or family related reasons.

These and many other are legitimate reasons to start your own self-employed business. There are some other driving forces why people do start their own business that will cause their business to fail. Learn more.

 

Understand these reasons for self-employment

 

It is important to understand the most important skills needed to become self-employed.

 

What are the most important skills needed to become self-employed?You must evaluate your own skills level against these.

Your risks of failure will be much less or totally reduced if you do have these most important skills or are willing to develop them before you start your own self-employment venture.

  • You must have a passion for what you are doing.
  • If you are creative you will be able to spot opportunities and exploit them better than your competitors.
  • Being self-employed require commitment. You must be able to continue irrespective of any problems or setbacks.
  • You will have to drive yourself. Self-discipline is of the utmost importance.
  • In any business taking risks is an integral part of success. You must be able to life with uncertainty.
  • You must be able to communicate and develop your network, stakeholders and support team.
  • Commercial knowledge and an understanding of a business environment is important.

 

If you do have confidence in you own skills and abilities you can be successful being self-employed. Read more.

 

What are the most important skills needed to become self-employed?

Be aware of the importance of these skills and develop them to achieve your dreams

You can develop these skills!!

Your risks of failure will be much less or totally reduced if you do have these most important skills or are willing to develop them before you start your own self-employment venture.

 

How to change your bad habits?You do have the tools available to change your bad habits that prevent you to achieve your dreams. You can change your habits and become the person we want to be.

You do have developed the bad habits due to choices you have made in the past.

The same way by which we do learn bad habits we can learn good habits or change our habits. If bad habits prevents you from achieving your dreams you must seriously consider changing your habits.

Both these—developing good or bad habits —-  we can control.

Learn more about these and get guidance on how by reading here.

Develop this new habit

Learn more about why do people fail in self-employed businesses?Learn more about why do people fail in self-employed businesses? People fail in self-employed businesses, because they start their self-employed business either for the wrong reasons or in the wrong way.
Many examples exist of people that are not successful developing their own businesses. Research has shown that an estimate of about 97% of the people who start their own business on the internet don’t reach their goals. From entrepreneurs starting their own businesses in other environments about 75% fail within the first 3 years.
The question is why? How can you prevent it if you want to become self-employed? Some of the main reasons for these failures are:
• Some people are desperate in making a decision to start their own business without doing proper planning and research.
• They see it as a get-rich-quick opportunity.
• They don’t have the passion or skills to develop a business on their own.
• They lack self-discipline to do what is needed to make a success of the business.
• They are not willing to make the sacrifices needed to be successful.
• Their business concept or product idea is not viable and they are not successful in creating value that the consumer is willing to pay for.
• They have the wrong attitude and are not willing to take responsibility for their decisions and pass blame to the circumstances, or the market.
• They don’t want to innovate and change with the market or the business environment.
• They are not able to communicate and convinced that the market of the value that they do create
• Not able to deliver a quality product that the consumers are willing to pay for.
These and many related issues will be discussed here.

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Why do people choose to become self-employed?

People choose to become self-employed for the right or wrong reason. Those that do make the decision for the wrong reason usually fail.

Why do people choose to become self-employed?

To make the correct decision for the correct reasons after a careful analysis will improve your chances of being successful dramatically.

If you are pushed into self-employment for the wrong reasons you will most likely fail. There are many examples of that.

If you are attracted to explore a self-employment opportunity for the correct reasons and develop your ideas after proper research and planning your chances of success will increase dramatically.

Some of the correct reasons to become self-employed are:

  • You have a passion for what you are doing, and you use your skills and strengths to develop your business.
  • You have the self-discipline to work on your own and be your own boss.
  • You have the attitude to make a success of the business irrespective of the circumstances in the business environment, the economy or your personal problems.
  • You are focused on what you are doing to achieve your goals
  • You have a network of people and experts to support you that you can use to develop new ideas and be a “sounding board”.
  • You have the ability to see the opportunities in the market – you will be able to create a product with value that people will be willing to pay for. You can create value.
  • You are able to communicate with people and convince them of the value you can deliver to them.
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Read more about the correct reasons to become self-employed here.
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Winston Churchill

“Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.”

Napoleon Hill

“A goal is a dream with a deadline.”

Les Brown

“Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.”

Norman Vincent Peale

“The more you loose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the more energy you will have.” Norman Vincent Peale

Success something personal: success is not the same for everybody, the only meaningful and everlasting definition of success is your own view of success. It should be your own definition, and not the definition of others.

There are various definitions for the meaning of success. Everybody tends to have their own.

In the eye of the public many people seem to be successful because they have material things or they are good looking or have an easy going personality or they are good at sport or have a craft talent or whatever it may be that other people have reason to envying them.

The real question is do those people consider themselves as being successful? If a person has lots of money or they are a famous sport star they will be considered as being successful, but if they don’t enjoy the lifestyle or are not happy are they really successful?

Real success in life is more about something from within than what others see in you.

That is the reason why self-employment is about your own self. Learn to know yourself. Gain maximum self-knowledge. That must be your guide to determine the self-employment opportunity you want to explore.

Define what is success to you and not success in the eyes of others, because true success is something personal.

On this platform that will be the guiding line.

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